America
seems to be going insane. The looming potential rise of President Donald J. Trump
has many people justifiably worried, but the fact of the matter is that
this terrible situation has been building for decades. As always, from deep pre-history all
the way up to these supposedly enlightened times here on planet Earth in 2016
AD, a large part of our problem comes down to a deeply primal tribalism—that “Us vs. Them” mentality that comes so
natural to each and every one of us. Tribalism
comes so easy because it’s natural. “Us
vs. Them” is a default setting residing deep within the human mind as a
natural way to group and act. Tribalism is also at the heart of the America
politics too—that fact is clear enough, all throughout our history. Politics is our
big American tribe breaking into smaller tribes and fighting over things. It's the
two great tribes which scheme and lord over the power of the government of this land, the Democratic and Republican Parties, typically forcing us into the false choice between two bad options: our hypocrite vs their crazy liar—and no other choices allowed. Our two-headed political monopoly lives and dies by a
political system predicated on “Us vs.
Them.”
Looking
back through time, the origin of deep-set tribalism is easy to understand. The
planet that we human beings evolved on for roughly 160,000 years was extremely
dangerous. It still is. Thinking tribally is a default setting, the natural way
we are programmed to think and to act: to favor the people and situations we know
over those we do not. Tribalism is basic prudence, trusting what you know (or
think you know) over what you don’t; the Hippocratic Oath’s “do no
harm” above all else. Yet it is an undeniable fact that some of us are more…susceptible… to tribalism than others. For some
reason, some of us are more tribal
than others—naturally more hostile to new people and new things, naturally more
hostile to change.
And this fact divides families, just as it divides cities and countries. It’s also nothing
new. American culture, our societal mood and habits and norms, swings like a pendulum
across time as WE, THE PEOPLE react
and evolve to the changing world. It feels like we keep fighting the same battles decade
after decade, generation after generation, but in many ways it’s tribalism which is making us fight. By nature we humans divide ourselves
up—then we fight about it.
It’s
very easy to see the tribalism in the rabid support of too many of the American
people for Donald Trump. The Trump candidacy basically IS the growing divide in
the Republican Party—a large mass of the true authoritarians among the American body
politic lining up
behind the most fear-mongering, xenophobic, demagogic daddy-figure there could
be. The Donald’s simple, angry, finger-pointing messaging is deeply tribal: full
of hostility against “others,” all about the projection of power, and
purposefully and willfully targeted at some of the most fearful and reactionary
among us. But Tribalism can certainly be seen in the Democrats too, especially in
the durable support for the trusted Clinton brand (By the DNC establishment, by
most Democratic politicians, and, it seems, by a large amount of
African-Americans in the South). Tribalism is what the Clintons are especially
good at, right? Not only in terms of Democratic Party “Us vs. Them” finger pointing, but also in the relatable, modest beginnings,
“I feel your pain” stuff. You can see tribalism in Bernie Bros just like you can at a Tea Party rally.
The
deeply tribal, finger-pointing politics of our two party system is a big part
of the problem, and it seems to be getting worse. It’s like America is
literally being torn asunder; fracturing into these different worlds with entirely
different meanings of words and ideas, our societal mood and habits and norms all
separating along with the rift. Is there any way to stop being so damn tribal all the time? Is “Us vs Them” finally going to doom
America for good?
A house divided against itself cannot stand.
I believe this government cannot endure, permanently,
half slave and half free.
I do not expect the Union to be dissolved
- I do not expect the house to fall -
but I do expect it will cease to be divided.
Abraham Lincoln
June 16, 1858
Springfield, USA, Earth
How did
we get here, USA 2016 Edition?
America’s politic framework has
been drastically lurching to the right since at least the (first) Clinton years, though the prolonged assault on
the pillars of the progressive left has been underway for far, far longer—many,
many decades. The morally corrupt moral crusader/Speaker of the House Newt
Gingrich accelerated the GOP’s push to the right, but President Clinton made it
far worse with his “triangulation” approach—basically a fancy way of saying
that the Democratic Party was open for business when it came to corporate
influence. The result? The direct manifestation of so many of our current
problems. Clinton’s repeal of the Glass-Steagal Act, a 60 year old law learned
from the wisdom of the Great Depression that separated commercial and
investment banks, literally created the Frankenstein monster "Too Big to Fail" banking consolidations which helped tank our economy in 2008-2009 (and
certainly aren’t done yet). Since the deregulation of banking, America’s four largest banks have
grown 65%, gobbling up thousands of smaller financial
institutions
in their wake (aka
“small businesses”). Slick Willy and crew also did another very bad thing by
deregulating the FCC—the federal agency which regulates
our airwaves, which have long been considered a public good owned by the
American people. In 1983, 90% of the American media
was owned by 50 companies. In 2011, after deregulation took its course, 90% of
the media was owned by 6 companies! [GE, News-Corp (Fox), Disney, Viacom, Time
Warner, and CBS]. Same exact idea on your radio dial. This is a
YUGE problem. No wonder media coverage
sucks so bad. These 6 massive “media” corporations are designed and run for
one thing: to make profits for their owners (mostly large stock holders, many
of which are other corporations). The unending quest for ratings
explains many of the choices as to what these companies decide to air when it
comes to the 24/7 “news” cycle, but it would be naïve to think that
ratings were the only thing. The bottom line needs to be protected, after all, long
term profits ensured. Political candidates who are good for the bottom line get
positive coverage, while those hostile to these interests get ignored and/or
attacked. We got to see Marco Rubio’s confusing Hurray! I got third place in Iowa! speech live on ALL the cable
“news” networks, but arenas filled by 30,000 Bernie
Sanders supporters are
nary mentioned. And in terms of the Donald, no matter how crude and ugly the language gets, the ratings are so friggen YUGE
that the “serious” “news outlets” can’t help themselves.
The
never-ending push for profits at the heart of these giant “media” conglomerates
has radically distorted both the quality and content of the “news” that we
receive. For a very long time the news used to be a public service, first in radio and then television. Remember: the American people are
supposed to own the airwaves—hence the existence of the FCC in the first place,
licensing out the bandwidth to companies. I can’t help but think about Walter
Cronkite when I think about how the news environment used to be. Uncle Walt came on every night and just read
the damn news. This was based on the (now clearly lost) idea that a highly
informed citizenry made for a better country. Now maybe Walt’s news was a lily-white
vanilla overview of things, but everyone basically trusted that what he was
saying was more or less the facts. 60 Minutes was the first television “news”
program that actually ever made any money. Then came CNN, the first dedicated TV
“news” network, creating the 24/7 “Breaking News” media cycle and exacerbating
a quickly worsening case of cultural ADHD. Soon after came the “fair and
balanced” [for-profit, right-wing] FOX News; quickly followed by the [corporate, for-profit] “liberal” MSNBC, trying to emulate Fox’s business model. And let’s understand
the game, to be clear. Besides the massive influence from being considered a
major and credible source of “the news,” the tangible thing that both FOX News
and MSNBC are selling is advertising. The network’s true “customers” are
other corporations (or the US Armed Forces… or politicians… or super Pacs…) trying
to sell something to a measurable and deliverable block of viewers. Corporate
advertising is where the money comes from. The network’s “viewers,” broken down
by demographics, are only who the advertising is aimed at.
Frankly,
this has put us in a really shitty fucking place. The American body politic is in
a terribly fractured position, given the inherent need for the “media” to divide our people into discrete segments of like-minded “news entertainment” listeners
and viewers, combined with our own natural proclivities to break into such groups. “Conservatives”
only listen to and watch “conservative” “news entertainment” (ie FOX and Rush),
while the “liberals” stick to MSNBC, or CNN, PBS, or maybe even NPR. The effects
of these self-selecting bubbles is destroying us; building walls of words and
ideas between family and friends, in every community across this country. I
don’t know about you, but I am finding it harder and harder to have anything
like a rational conversation with a few of my most conservative friends. And having
different worldviews is understandable... It’s actually great. We are different
people who’ve grown up in different circumstances seeing different things. Yet
one highly dangerous fact seems inexplicable: even though we are still friends,
and they are smart, compassionate people, we can no longer talk about politics anymore. It seems useless. The expressed worldviews of my most conservative friends are based not only on an
entirely different set of vocabulary words which I thought I knew, but a
completely different perspective that is very hard for me to see. Words and ideas that mean
one thing to me mean something entirely different to them, making for these giant,
meaninglessly garbled word clouds of nothing. We are no longer speaking the
same language, and because of this our minds cannot meet. And this development is
immensely worrying, because if you can’t speak with someone to try to settle
your differences—if you can’t use words with shared meanings to compromise on a course of action—either
those differences don’t get settled, or they get settled by things far more
damaging than words, like bullets.
Men often hate each other because they fear each other;
The fear each other because they don't know each other;
They don't know each other because they can not communicate;
They can not communicate because they are separated.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
Speech, 1958 AD
Montgomery, USA, Earth
Political
Tribalism
Divide
and conquer is one of the oldest tricks in the books. The fracturing of the
American people into different groups of “news” consumers with different
vocabularies and different focuses and perspectives is made worse by the
absolute lock the two political parties share in the monopoly control over our
government. Indeed, divide and conquer plus a rigid two party system seem to be
made for each other. One party points at the other, using its proven, poll-tested
vocabulary words for how bad the other side is, kicking and screaming as it
tries to rile up its “base.” The other party does the same exact thing back. A
result of this perpetual back-and-forth is this voting for the lesser of two
evils crap… hold your nose while your vote for Hillary, since Trump is such a hideous
monster. Or, vice versa—vote for the outsider Trump, because the last thing you
want is another 8 years of above-the-law Clinton cronyism (along with another
too-big-to-fail bailout and maybe another war on the side to boot). It’s
pathetic! The fact that America is this great democracy is pounded into our
heads all our lives. How many people have fought and died to ensure all of our rights to vote? Yet our only “choices” are terrible options since the system has
been rigged. Undying, international for-profit corporations are now
considered people, and granted protection under the Bill of Rights just like
you and me! And first amendment “free speech” has been redefined to include the
act of giving money to politicians! How are we still even calling this a
democracy at all?
Personally—as
a frustrated, highly progressive science fiction writer—I am well past the
point of picking the lesser of two evils. No
mas. Can’t do it. If I voted for
Hillary, and when she once again
bails out the Mafioso banks and marches us to war, I know that my conscience
would not let me alone [and as a science fiction writer I like to think my
conscience pays my bills. Or at least maybe will...one day]. Yet whether the Republican
nominee is Donald Drumph, or whether the GOP establishment somehow steals it
from him and gives it to Cruz or Kasich or some other lily-white knight—no
matter what, no matter who, there is a very strong subset of conservatives who will
go out and vote for whoever is nominated on their “side.” “Conservative”
voters are loyal, and they almost always vote. When push comes to shove, most will line up
together—unlike many of us “liberals.”
There
is certainly something going on here worth examining. It is not controversial
to say that there are plainly identifiable differences between “conservative”
and “liberal” minds, not only in what we say matters most to us and how we vote, but in how we perceive the world. The clearly pronounced loyalty of conservatives causes
a very predictable result that is demonstrated with a simple analogy: it’s
the difference between herding dogs and cats. [Dogs are naturally pack animals,
so usually come along willingly. Cats? Not so much...] WHY IS THIS??? Why
are some of my most conservative friends and family so frustratingly loyal to “leaders”
like Trump or George W. Bush, when it’s clear to me that they’re nothing more than power-hungry
sociopaths entirely not on “their side?” Why does xenophobia and other fears
seem to affect them a little more? Why does xenophobia and fear affect us all?
Me
against my brothers.
Me
and my brothers against my cousins.
Me
and my brother and my cousins against the world
Ancient
Bedouin saying
Source and date unknown
Planet Earth
Tribalism
is the Default Setting
Tribalism
starts the moment we’re born. There is an innate wiring in our brains which
makes us form groups. Our first “Us”
is our family: first mommy and daddy, then any siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles,
etc. and moving on out from there. Then it’s small communities like school, the
neighborhood, or maybe church, and then any number of other groups like Little
League or mathletes or Girl Scouts. We naturally start forming social groups
once we’re in school: the nerds and the jocks and the band geeks all naturally finding
one another, coalescing into smaller, like-minded bands. We do it at
college and we do it at work. Forming into tribes is a natural thing. Indeed, if we
look across the animal kingdom, we see that many (if not all) of the most
intelligent species on the planet also self-divide into different, inter-species
groups of “Us vs Them.” There are
competing clans of wolves, herds of elephants, pods of dolphins, and bands of
chimps. Did you know that orcas had
different languages?!?
We
humans spent 95% of our existence and development living in small family groups
in the plains of Africa. Words and ideas, methods and skills—the essence of
culture itself—were all carefully passed down through the generations, though
word and song and deed for well over 100,000 years. Earth is a dangerous place, and if
you study history at all you know how brutally vicious people can be. It makes perfect
sense to be naturally suspicious of new people and new things. It makes perfect
sense to be suspicious of a new anything, really. Conservative prudence was
probably the best course in most situations across our development—especially considering
the fact that people are kind of puny animals in the grand scheme of things. These
small family groups usually followed what they knew or else they died. But as
we know as a fact of our lives—some people are different. Some of us are naturally
more cautious, wanting to adhere to the traditions and hierarchies already in
place. Some of us are more naturally adventurous, more prone to try new things,
to explore… to travel between the tribes. There is certainly a benefit of
having both types in a group. Without the conservative mind in a tribe, the past is
forgotten and unnecessary risks are taken—and traditions are usually there for tried
and true reasons. But without the liberal mind, tribes don’t mingle and new
ways of thinking don’t spread [nor do genes—there’s a reason why most of the religiously
conservative tribes on this planet are also the most inbred]. Our small,
family-based tribes survived the dangerous wilds of planet Earth by having the
benefit of multiples ways of thinking about and doing things. A mix of brain
types is beneficial to survival. In this regard, our differences make sense. It’s good for a community to have a range of
opinions to choose from.
The Sources of our Tribalism—Nature vs Nurture
As
previously mentioned—and something that should not be considered controversial—is
the fact that “conservative” voters are more loyal to their groups and generally
more resistant to change when compared to their “liberal” counterparts. And
this cuts across continents, just as it cuts across history. When asked what
values are most important to them, conservatives typically list
loyalty, morality, and order. Liberals lists values like conscientiousness,
justice, and inclusiveness.
These aren’t just words, either… Our
professed values form a large part of our perspectives, affecting not only how
experiences are perceived when they come in, but in how we react to them, in
our words and in our deeds after the fact. Our values directly shape our
actions.
Corroborating
what many of us already know from watching enough FOX News, new
studies show that “conservative-minded” people are wired to be more reactive to
fear:
According to the experts who study political leanings, liberals and conservatives do not just see things differently. They are different-in their personalities and even their unconscious reactions to the world around them. For example, in a study published in January, a team led by psychologist Michael Dodd and political scientist John Hibbing of the University of Nebraska-Lincoln found that when viewing a collage of photographs, conservatives' eyes unconsciously lingered 15 percent longer on repellent images, such as car wrecks and excrement--suggesting that conservatives are more attuned than liberal to assessing potential threats.
Meanwhile examining the contents of 76 college students' bedrooms, as one group did in a 2008 study, revealed that conservatives possessed more cleaning and organizational items, such as ironing boards and calendars, confirmation that they are orderly and self-disciplined. Liberals owned more books and travel-related memorabilia, which confirms with previous research suggesting they are more open and novelty seeking.
"These are not superficial differences. They are psychologically deep," says psychologist Jojn Jost of New York University, a co-author of the bedroom study. "My hunch is that the capacity to organize the political world into left or right may be a part of human nature."
Emily Laber-Warren
Scientific American, September 1, 2012 AD
USA, Earth
Beyond
our demonstrable behavior, brain anatomy also tells us something about our
differences. It turns out that conservative and
liberal brains have different anatomy.
In people with higher fear-biased, “conservative”
minds, the amygdala is more pronounced.
This is an interesting fact, but what does it really tell us? Does the difference in amygdala size come strictly from genetics, or does it come from environment,
like from exposure to something? A demonstrable bump forms in the pre-frontal cortex of
practiced musicians.
Given the elasticity of growing young minds in particular, it wouldn’t be a
stretch to conclude that at least some of the fear-bias in people is learned, thus
growing the part of the brain most responsive to it. Young minds are wired to
watch and learn—and we learn the most from the people we love, right? Nurture, the
environments we grow up in, has to account for at
least part of the development between “liberal” and “conservative” minds. Maybe
our brains are naturally wired more one way or the other, a little more liberal-
or conservative-minded, but young brains are highly elastic, conforming to the
impressions and molds given as examples before hardening with age. The physical
and emotional environments we are placed in, by conscious choice or not, change
us—from the very start to the very end. Our minds are changed by the situations in
which they develop—and then they are continually tested, every waking moment
until your last.
It
is impossible to separate exactly what comes from genetics and what comes from
environment, especially because of the proven plasticity of the human brain
during early mental development. Yet these discrete differences in
our brains make us “conservatives” and “liberals” think and act the way we do.
Some of us far more susceptible to worrying about fearful and disgusting
things, while many are less so. Likely, people fall on a bell curve when it
comes to this (picture above—in this case two overlapping bell curves). A genetic
proclivity from birth grants each of us a naturally more conservative or liberal
mind along a spectrum, but
environment plays a huge part in our development as well. An
insular, fear-driven worldview can certainly be learned. To a naturally
conservative mind already predisposed to worrying about things a little more, this
type of worldview could come as positive reinforcement—the world is crazy, so we need
to stick with what we know. Conservative minds want things in order, everything clearly labeled. This explains why the staunchest conservatives of every
society want to stick so closely to the long-prescribed doctrines, religious or
otherwise: they provide strict frameworks for how to view life. “Free market
economics” is a religious doctrine (and another one of those garbled vocabulary
words), just like “socialism” is (ditto)…just like Rastafarianism…just like Islam… All of these
doctrinal frameworks play into the essence of tribalism itself. Religions
are all about explaining the world to you… “This is what we believe in.”
“This is how it is.” And you’re not supposed to question things, God forbid. You’re
supposed to have faith and obey. Remember: if you take a bite out of the fruit from the
tree of knowledge, you and your man get your asses kicked out of Eden…
Michelangelo
Sistene
Chapel ceiling, 1510 AD
Rome, Earth
Nature
versus Nurture in Conservative Authoritarianism
Thoughtlessly
clinging to various “religions” can be a reason why so many people are acting
so crazy, but this is not the only thing at play. The strictly bounded,
hierarchical frameworks for life that doctrinal thinking provides is probably a
large part of what we are seeing: naturally conservative-minded people
incubated in these bubbles where the news
entertainment and politics are largely driven by anxiety and fear. This is where nature and nurture meets.
America’s most conservative-minded people are the most loyal tribes because
they are naturally that way. And like all of us, their minds are made by and
reinforced by the environments they’re placed in. A constant, 20+ year drip
of a cynical, 24/7, for-profit “conservative” “news” cycle which leverages fear
and anger has manifested into an extremely paranoid and angry right wing, with
meanings for words and ideas very different from their original meanings.
Donald
Trump’s finger-pointing messaging is the most atavistically tribal of all, his simple
ideas based on the fear of other groups (Muslims, Mexicans, and China),
the fear of economic loss, and of deep nostalgia (“Let’s make American great again”).
Trump’s most fervent supporters are
a tribe of America’s most conservative-minded people. They certainly seem to be driven
by fear more than the rest of us… They are loyal to his many, many faults. And
more than anything else they’re scared, made worse by the “news entertainment”
they’re choosing to watch. Now let’s juxtapose this against the most famous quote of one of our most
revered presidents at the height of the Great Depression:
This is preeminently the time to speak the truth, the whole truth, frankly and boldly. Nor need we shrink from honestly facing conditions in our country today. This great Nation will endure as it has endure, will revive and will prosper. So, first of all, let me assert my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself - nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance. In every dark hour of our national life a leadership of frankness and vigor has met with that understanding and support of the people themselves which is essential to victory.
Franklin Delano Roosevelt
First Inaugural Address, March 4, 1933 AD
Washington DC, USA, Earth
All
tribes have a reactive far right. We always have. The Trump tribe, a smaller
tribe in our much larger American tribe, seems rock solid, buttressed by such vehemently loyal support, yet despite
this perceived strength (and media coverage) all the people who have voted for
Trump are only a small percentage of the American people (he’s got 7.5 million
votes in the Republican primary). Places like Vox are already
identifying who and what many of these voters are: true authoritarians. These voters are our most naturally
reactive Americans. They have been and continue to be affected by a sensationalist,
fear-laden media and political environment, and right now their shared worldview
is demanding a strong, outside-of-the-corrupt-government leader above all else.
And we are right to be afraid of the angry, violent undercurrent demonstrated
by the Trump candidacy if we study history at all. An authoritarian worldview is
extremely dangerous. “Shut up! I’m the best! We’re the best! Listen to me! This
is the answer!” is the exact opposite of “It’s complicated,” I’m not sure,” and
“think for yourself.”
Divide and rule, the politician cries;
Unite and lead, is watchword of the wise.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
Gedichte, 1770 AD
Strasbourg, German Federation, Earth
The
Path to Change
Changing
pretty much anything seems like a colossal task right now, given how convoluted
and shitty everything seems to be getting. Our feckless “leaders” are in the
worst bubbles of them all, living in realities separate and apart from us
common plebes—reading about how great the economy is in the New York Times
while flying on private jets 20,000 feet above the wreckage. Yet history
consistently and depressingly shows that fear-driven, xenophobic, reactionary
movements during economically depressed, tumultuous times can bring about very,
very bad things. Our most conservative-minded brothers and sisters are rabidly
loyal and want order above all else—and honestly don’t care what you think.
They are doing what they think is right based on the world as they see it, just
like anybody else. Their politics are based on not only different words and
ideas, but in entirely different perceptions of the world. And while I can
certainly see and feel the growing canyon between me and
my most conservative friends and family members, as our words and ideas grow
further and further apart, I don’t see an answer to the root of the problem. We
purposefully put ourselves into these highly-segmented “news” and thought bubbles,
much of it due to natural tribal tendencies.
Thomas Paine said "to argue with a man who had renounced the use and authority of reason, and whose philosophy consists in holding humanity in contempt, is like administering medicine to the dead..." I talked
about this in the beginning—when talking to some of my most conservative
friends and family and politics inevitably comes up, first there’s this glazed
eye thing and then very soon we’re spouting meaningless vocabulary words at each other that may as well be gibberish—no longer fuller communicating with a meeting of
minds. History and now science show that there’s a certain percentage of every
population who are the most conservative-minded folks: those with the most
rigid, traditional, we-must-follow-the-rules viewpoints—and this is across
whatever social construct we’re looking it, whether at a school or in a church,
in a political party or in a country. Frankly, and with WAY too much time and
effort, I’ve learned that there’s really no arguing with some of these people. Our words and ideas mean entirely different
things, so communication is nearly impossible—and completely filled with
digressions as we try to work through it.
The
unchecked rise of 24/7, shock and fear-driven for-profit news entertainment is a big reason why Thanksgiving has gotten so
painful for so many of us. I have some friends and family who are absolutely
wonderful, thoughtful, caring people, yet
it is impossible to talk to them about politics. And in many ways, it seems
to be an impossible divide… and way too late. Not only do our words now mean
entirely different things, but they’re structured around different environments
which stress different ideas. Yet human beings are supposedly the smartest
creature that the good Lord has ever created, and one of our greatest gifts is
empathy, the ability to try to see through the eyes of other people to try to
gain their perspective. Okay, so—Uncle Jim Bob may be unbearable to argue with,
but what about little cousin Jimmy? He’s only 11, and he’s been listening to
this crap his whole life—surrounded by it, in fact—and maybe he’s finally
starting to question it as his young world quickly opens up... And maybe Aunt
Bee is secretly on your side too, having heard and watched James Robert the
last 30 years and is sick and tired of it.
So,
don’t give up. We’re probably not
going to change the minds of many of the people already in the Trump camp. Some
people aren’t worth arguing with—but that doesn’t mean you should shut up. Our
compassionate, understanding words may be aimed at them… but their real impact
is on everyone else listening. Some
of us are extremely scared and very confused right now—constantly barraged by a
media and political establishment keeping us scared and very confused. The good
news is that younger people may be a little more immune to our for-profit
corporate “news” media predicament—they certainly don’t watch television for their news,
though they’re not immune to the self-selected intellectual ghettos
on the Internet. The bad news is that many older people still rely on this for-profit
corporate media system for their “news,” and they vote in droves. But they’re
our friends and family, and they may listen to us because they love us.
Understanding
why and how we are different is paramount to coming together. Always keep in
mind how and why we’re of different
minds. More than anything, it is important to
understand that liberals and conservatives don’t just have different opinions about things. Conservative and
liberal minds are literally wired to see the world differently. We are
differently thinking people who naturally value different things, which makes
us think and act differently as we react to this crazy world. These innate
differences can manifest in very different realities, with different stimuli
and motivations causing different reactions. When we argue we’re not just disagreeing…we’re in different mindsets
acting with different perspectives.
Your
perspective, which includes your values, comes from how you are and how you
grew up, and then you’re surroundings; from nature and nurture both. Yet your
perspective is also within your control—you can chose to act a certain way, if
you really want to. As conscious, thinking beings, with deliberate thought and
intention we can pull ourselves out of our natural tribal mindsets—we can rise
above it, if we choose. I believe the best way to do that is to always keep in
mind the (paraphrased) words of the most influential thinker of the American
Revolution, Thomas Paine: My country is
the world and my religion is to do good. Consciously thinking about these
words resets your mind to the largest tribe there is: the people of Earth.
And once your mind is centered there, hovering there on the global level trying
to do good for everybody, the finger-pointing games going on far below seem
petty as hell.
And
listen here. I know that this piece is
going to raise some hackles. I will go further and predict the entirely
brain-dead comment I’m going to get from that last paragraph ,specifically: “if you hate American so much, why don’t you
move?” Thinking about the world first precludes nothing. I’m still a proud
American (which is more of a social construct than anything else…), just like
I’m a proud New Yorker. And I’m still loyal to my family and friends above
everyone else in this world when push comes to shove. Yet an open perspective,
understanding that things are far bigger than little ole me, requires me to try
to look at the biggest possible picture first. An open perspective shows me
that avarice—GREED—is the predominant enemy of the people of America, not each
other. Ditto for the rest of the world.
In
the end we can only control ourselves. YOU can choose to rise above
tribalism—if you want to. Yet it’s also important to realize that some people
don’t want to, at all. Finger-pointing and following is easy. Learning to
think for yourself is difficult. We can rise above tribalism, bridging the gaps
between the broken words and fractured ideas—but it starts with each of us. Use
compassion and logic and understanding on your family and friends and know
that you can help change the world.
Nations!
What are nations? Tartars! And Huns! And Chinamen!
Like
insects they swarm. The historian strives in vain to make them memorable.
It
is for want of a man that there are so many men. It is individuals that
populate the world.
Henry
David Thoreau
Journal
Entry for May 1, 1851 AD
Concord, USA, Earth
George Orwell complaining about the same stuff 60 years ago: http://www.orwell.ru/library/essays/politics/english/e_polit
